Compelled To Say....

Ok - I know this is very very weird, but I just feel like I need to get this out there because I'm always complaining about my husband.

That's just what I use this space for sometimes. I don't want to necessarily spread my toxicity to the people closest to me so I throw it out here and passers by can choose to read .....or not. Most of all it's just a way for me to get it out of my own head and heart.

Ok - so the point of that is this. I see so many stories of missing wives and moms on the news. I don't know if it's happening more often, or we just have so much more media outlets these days that it's just more publicized. But what I most notice is that it's ALWAYS the husband that they look at first, longest, and hardest. Especially if...GOD FORBID...there's any hint that the husband and wife have EVER argued. Naturally that's a precursor to murder....naturally.

Let it be known that my husband would never ever ever ever ever ever do anything to ever hurt me or any other person. He's just not that person. He would never, could never cause harm to a person. He's completely non-violent.

I know I know - nobody thinks such a thing of the people in their lives....even when people in their lives turn out to be guilty. But the fact is that in 17 years he's never even lifted a hand or finger to anyone ever for anything. Back in the day, when he would hang out at a bar, if someone were to start something with him (which has only happened once) he would walk away (which he did in that instance).

He is non-violent, non-confrontational, non-aggressive. Ask anyone. So if I die (I told you this was weird) under strange circumstances or disappear....this is not to say that I have any plans to do so .... for gosh sake it was NOT my husband!!!

Now, here's to long life and happiness with my family. Now I feel free to go ahead and write my latest complaint about H....